The tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live. Have you ever thought about who will cry when you die? Will someone remember you in their tears? Or you are very busy with your chores and you didn’t get that time?
Once my father said to me – when you were born, the world rejoiced and you cried. Live your life in such a way when you will die the world will cry while you rejoiced.
By – Robin Sharma.
Ask yourself who will cry when you die?
We all have forgotten how to live. Yes, we are earning so much but the truth is neither we have time for ourselves, nor for our family.
We forgot to laugh and make others laugh.
You need to change yourself otherwise, you will not forgive yourself on your deathbed. If I talked about myself, I am a girl with big dreams. When I moved to Noida for a job. I used to be very energetic and passionate but gradually I got stuck in my routine. In that 9 to 5 job, I got so busy that I didn’t have time for myself. After this routine nothing left inside me?. Neither to think about me nor my dream. I know this is not only my story.
But after reading a book of the great author I came to know even in our busy schedule we can do whatever we want to do. I can take time for everyone or everything. Books are the best resource for knowledge and motivation. As for advice, I would like to recommend you to read books and practice the lessons that have been given.
Let’s get back to the topic. Who will cry, when you die?
We all are living a life that we never wanted to live. Why do we want to show others that we are happy even if the reality is different?
Just remember that the day when you will be on the deathbed. What are the things you wanna feel at that moment? “Yes, this is what I have done so far, and I have lived my life as I wanted to live with not even a single regret”.
George Bernard Shaw was asked on his deathbed, “what would you do if you could live your life over again?” He replied with a deep sigh:
“I’d like to be a person I could have been but never was.”
I will try my best that it would never happen with you.
I am sharing some key points that will make you think that we can have a normal and happy life. We just need to remember some important things which we have forgotten because of all those worries which even does not exist .you have to practice all given key points. Make them the part of your life.
Discover your calling
We are living in an age where we have forgotten what life is all about. Easily We can cross the kilometer of distance in some hours. but we don’t have time, to walk with our families, friends, children, or neighbors. we have smartphones, WhatsUp, etc. but we don’t have time to sit with our siblings and parents. We have missed our priority but when we get to know or we remember till then the time has been passed.
Why we don’t have morning tea with our parents, why we don’t have a morning walk with our friends? if we are not in the same city why don’t we call them and ask how are they doing? How much time does it take? We all are here for some unique purpose and blessed with special talents.
We just need to find out our calling. Finding yourself does not mean that you should stop whatever you are doing. It just means to bring yourself more in your work and focus on things you do and give your best.
“Do the things that you wanted to see in your life take a step towards your happiness. either it is regarding your work or your family, And once you do, your life will change.”
Before you late, think about this.
Every Day Be Kind to a Stranger
How much time it takes to smile, To smile towards the people with whom we are sharing rickshaw, auto, bus, or whosoever crossing the path. Maybe they are in the need of a smile. If you make a person smile during your day or brighten the mood of even one stranger, your day is a worthwhile one.
Kindness, quite simply, is the rent we must pay for space we occupy on this planet.
One day I went to the nearby park where I was walking with my friend then I have seen a girl who is sitting there and crying on the phone. I stopped there, I asked her is there any problem or is there something you want to share with me, you can tell me we can sit for a while.
She replied – Nothing much I am just missing my mom and talking to her. Then I replied ok but if you need just call me. I am walking here and I moved forward and then
She called me Hi and I replied with a smile Yes. She said with the smile you both are looking awesome together and we both start laughing. So, the moral of the story
“Be kind with one another”. Offer a seat, water if someone in need.
Ask others to smile if they are sad. It will help you to enlighten your soul.
Here I am remembering some lines of songs
अपने लिये जिये तो क्या जिये तू जी, ऐ दिल, ज़माने के लिये |
So ask a question “who will cry, when you die” to yourself and it will give you the answer to your all question that how should you have to live your life and with whom you wanna live your life.
Develop an Honesty Philosophy
We are living in a world of broken promises. We live in a time where people does not have the value of their words.we will tell a friend we will call them next week even we know the truth that we do not have time, we promise to ourself we will get up early, but we do not show seriousness towards our words.
As a result, saying things we do not mean becomes a habit. The real problem is that when we do not keep our words, you lose credibility.
When you lose credibility, You break the bond of truth and it leads to the broken relationship. To develop honesty philosophy.
Examine yourself, how many untruths you tell within a week. Try to be honest, If you wanna do something then only give the promises. Be the man of your words.
I am not talking about you. I am talking about us even I am also the one but now I am working on myself. Sometime you will feel that we lie even at that place where there is no sense of lying
Honor Your Past
Every second you think about your past, you are stealing from the future. Life has more to show. Learn from your past and start focusing on your future. Because your future one day will be your past and then you will regret that also. Every minute you spend on focussing on your problem you take away from finding solutions.
Instead of looking or thinking about your problems. Write down your problems and you will get to know that half of the problems are useless and you can not do anything about some so why to worry, live happily.
“It just takes a minute to change circumstances good to bad and bad to good”. See your trouble as a blessing and live a great life ahead.
Laugh More
Because of our stress and busy schedule we forget to laugh. Laugh is a great therapy that helps to heal the illness. Daily laughter elevates our moods, and give us more energy.
Comedian steve martin – reportedly laughs for five minutes in front of the mirror every morning to get his day on a high note.
We don’t laugh because we are happy. We are happy because we laugh.
So laugh more and more(try it – it works).
you also need to train your mind because everything is in our mind, everything is because of our mind. Our mind works like a programming system. It will give you a response according to the incident or images that you feed in your mind. To train your mind, you need to read our blog How to train your mind.
So let’s start a journey towards when you die the world will cry while you will rejoice.
My motive is to build motivation in people that help them to live a happy life. Even it will impact the lives of our youth and will help them enlighten their soul so we can build a better environment where nobody feels alone in a new city. Dishonesty can be overcome by the help of honesty philosophy. Where people respect others’ struggles. Laugh therapy will help people to recover from sadness.
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It’s a time to inward , not outward . No matter what you are , you will die like a ordinary man so think while you move , speak if it is necessary than silence , if we can love the whole world why we are wasting time .
Great writing with heavy meaning . Thank you.
Thankyou for your apperictaion , it will encourage me to accomplishing the goals
Mam vo park vali ladki kon thi
She was a stranger, I just met her coincidentally, but just because of a move, we interact with each other
Hats of to way of thinking .I can relate 👌.people have to do whats going to make you happy at the end of day . Kinds words by khusi chaudhary❤️
Thank you Ankush, for investing your time and for your appreciation.
You know i love you ❤️ great writing proud of you ❤️❣️😘
I love you too bhai, thank you so much, you are the best 🙂
Really you write the nice line
Thank you sandhya 🙂
जय परशुराम 🙏🙏😂
जय परशुराम
हर काली रात गुजर जाती हैं
हर गहरे दर्द को छुपा जाती हैं,
आता हैं फिर एक नया सवेरा
एक नयी उम्मींद हर दर्द को भुलाकर,
मगर दिल के जख्म भरे कहा जाते हैं
टूटे शीशे फिर जोड़े कहा जाते हैं,
फिर दिन ढलते-ढलते दिल सहम जाता हैं
ओर मायूस होकर सवेरे का इंतज़ार करता हैं,
क्यूंकि रात फिर आते-आते उस गहरे दर्द को जगा जाती हैं
हर काली रात फिर गुजर जाती हैं,
🙂
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